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GOP America: Early Marriage, Early Divorce, Early Pregnancy, Early Abortion

By , About.com GuideMay 20, 2010

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Few observers have failed to notice that while the Christian Right vehemently opposes abortion, it also opposes policies which would reduce the demand for abortions. It seems incoherent to oppose something and also oppose the most effective methods for reducing it, but the apparent incoherence here stems from fundamental attitudes towards sex and ideals about family and gender which the rest of the industrialized world left behind long ago. The Christian Right position here is thus internally consistent, but externally inconsistent with modernity - not just modern political systems, but modern advances in justice, equality, and morality.

Andrew Koppelman writes

about Red Families v. Blue Families: Legal Polarization and the Creation of Culture, a book by Naomi Cahn and June Carbone:
Cahn and Carbone observe that two different family systems, presupposing different norms, now exist in the United States. The older, more traditional model demands marriage before (or very soon after) sexual activity begins, identifies responsible parenthood with marriage rather than maturity or economic self-sufficiency, aims at socialization into traditional gender roles, and embraces authoritarian models of parenting. The appropriate response to unplanned pregnancy is the shotgun marriage. Same-sex marriage seems to flout this entire complex of values, elevating the happiness of adults over the well-being of children.

This model remains prevalent in much of the United States. Where it does, the Republican party has reliable support: the political affiliation of a state correlates well with the median age of first marriage. But where it prevails, divorce rates are the highest in the country, because early marriages are the most likely to fail. Teen pregnancy, high rates of sexually transmitted diseases, and single motherhood are frequent. The problem is that, although this ethic has considerable continuing power, it is in decay. Its enforcement mechanisms have weakened. Unhappy couples can no longer be forced to stay together, and teenagers can't be prevented from having sex.

At the same time, a new sexual ethic has emerged and is now deeply entrenched in the blue states. This model, which Cahn and Carbone call the "new middle class ethic," is tolerant of premarital sexuality so long as contraception is carefully used, with abortion as the responsible fallback. It calls for postponing marriage and parenthood until the completion of higher education, and aims at more egalitarian gender roles within marriage. It produces lower rates of divorce and teenaged motherhood, but also falling fertility and more people living alone.

The "new" sexual ethic described here is one which is already well established in other industrialized nations, especially Europe. It's no coincidence that these nations are also characterized by higher rates of health and happiness than America. Just how these factors are all related hasn't been made clear yet, but there clearly are some causal relationships because this is a pattern we see consistently across the globe. One of the factors is, I think, the absence of authoritarian control over people's lives.

People are instead allowed to make their own choices and are supported in those choices by the community. Their options aren't limited to just a narrow range that has the approval of certain religious leaders and they aren't punished for failing to make choices consistent with religious tradition. Indeed, that's precisely where this "new sexual ethic" has come from. It wasn't imposed on people from any outside source; it has instead evolved from the choices people make when left free to make their own decisions about their lives.

It's the goal of the Christian Right, however, to limit those choices as much as possible - no matter what the cost:

Government support for contraception, especially contraception provided to teenage girls without their parents' knowledge or consent is anathema. Such girls should not be having sex at all. Contraceptive information is likely to encourage them to flout moral norms with impunity. Unwanted pregnancy is unfortunate but valuable as a deterrent to premarital sex.

It was this ethic that produced the move to abstinence-only sex education, which is now the predominant approach in a third of American schools. (110) But there is no evidence that such education makes abstinence until marriage more likely (96% of Americans have sex before they marry, see 175), or produces a decline in teen or nonmarital births, and some evidence that it produces an increase in both, because it is more likely that a girl will not know how to contracept at the time of her first sexual experience. (3, 111) The effect is particularly pronounced with respect to black and Latina girls, who are disproportionately exposed to abstinence-only education. Two-thirds of white women, but fewer than half of black women, have received instruction about contraception before their first sexual encounter. (111)

The misogyny of men establishing the options available to women is obvious, but the racism here of white men making decisions which create hardships for minority women should not be ignored. It's not "bad luck" or "race neutral" rules that cause minority women to suffer the most from situations like this. It is typical that people further down on the socio-economic ladder suffer from decisions made by those further up - decisions which those further up can get around if they want because of their greater economic resources. The limited access to abortion in America, for example, impacts the poor more because they can't easily take time off or travel to distant clinics; the middle and upper classes, though, can manage more easily.

I think it would be a mistake, though, to assume that nothing more is going on - that the racial disparities here are solely about class. Reduced access to family planning services has direct and unambiguous consequences on people's long-term economic power. Teen pregnancy diminishes a woman's educational prospects and thus also her lifetime career goals and earnings. Young marriage does the same for both men and women. Reduced access to contraceptives and abortion means more unintended pregnancies, higher costs for families, and further reduced earnings in the long term.

The net effect of this then is that white evangelical Christian leaders are making decisions that reduce the economic, political, and social power of everyone who starts out from reduced socio-economic circumstances but especially of blacks and Latinos. This perpetuates a system where whites hold economic and political dominance over non-whites and it's difficult to dismiss this as mere coincidence - especially given the historic attitudes of white evangelical churches towards minorities. You can't adopt policies that help hold down racial minorities then insist that racism is dead.

Comments
May 20, 2010 at 2:41 pm
(1) P Smith says:

Of course the claimed “policy” is inconsistent when compared with its effects. The “policy” is not the reason or the goal, it is the method.

The real purpose of the rabidly religious stances (anti-abortion, pro-marriage, etc.) is to control women. Women are expected to marry, to stay “in their place” at home after they get pregnant, to give up control of their bodies, to obey men, etc.

If you examine the far-right’s “policies” as trying to reduce women to second class citizens, it becomes 100% consistent, with no contradictions at all.

May 20, 2010 at 3:07 pm
(2) The Sojourner says:

Very often when the subject of Christian attitudes toward abortion et al arise, I am reminded of this Pulitzer Prize Winning Photo. I use it quite frequently as an example of what unplanned reproduction can lead to:

http://blog.wacky5.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/vulture-child.jpg

Do I know for a fact that this child was unplanned in a famine struck part of the world? No, not for a fact, but let me guess why a child that small is all alone with no adult around, and obviously minutes from death trying to find food.
Let me further guess what happens to such unfortunate children.

I can show you statistics on the homeless children that populate all parts of the world, as well. The largest numbers are from primarily family planning deprived countries many are (guess what) Christian. The poorest countries in the world. Mostly inspired by some form of religion or other that does not allow, or is totally ignorant of, some form of birth control. Please note where our own USA is on that list. Are you surprised? I’m not:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Street_children

How can anyone with a thinking, reasoning mind call these ignorant, zealots pro life? I noticed someone refer to this as FORCED PREGNANCY. Much more to the point, I think. The life of a child after birth is of no interest after it’s born to these sheeple.

The point? Control of the woman, control of the world, misogyny, conversion of more people. The more the merrier. Who cares about overpopulation? “Armageddon is coming soon (it’s always coming soon). We will be taken by our messiah. Jesus is coming. The world is an evil place anyhow“. With that attitude is it any wonder there are so many with so little in this world?

“Poverty and of course, suffering, bring you closer to God”, so what if some newborn dies because of an AIDS infected mother? Fetal alcohol syndrome? Starvation? Anencephaly? So what, who cares? “It must be born.” Their God says so, they say so, therefore all must follow. “It’s what God (their god, of course) wants”.

May 20, 2010 at 4:44 pm
(3) Dean says:

Reducing the need for abortion would make sense if it is really abortion someone is against. What they are really against is abortion not being illegal. They can’t stand that it is not legally a crime. The number of abortions actually performed is only significant in the sense that the statistic can be used to alarm voters.

May 21, 2010 at 3:50 pm
(4) Borsia says:

The idea that abstinence has ever worked, even in the slightest and under the best circumstances, is so totally refuted that is is relegated to the level of a bad joke by anyone with the slightest intelligence. Even those who claim “it is the only way” can’t show any evidence that it has ever worked. Not only does it not work in society as a whole it doesn’t even work in their own communities. Not even among their own religious leaders who are constantly being caught up in scandal. Of course the ones put in the spotlight are the few while there are many, many more who don’t get called out.

The frightening thing is that their zealot views are projected in our foreign policy. During the Bush administrations any country that taught planned parenthood weren’t allowed to receive any foreign aid. Forcing them to allow unchecked population growth which is the very root of their sad situations to begin with.

The religious right, as well as most religions, wants women kept “barefoot and pregnant” and the less education they get the better. The overall concept of religion, most personified by the Catholic church, is that is is better to get a little from a huge mass than to have a more prosperous society that might see their ruse. “Keep them starving and stupid and they will be thankfull for next to nothing.” Of course nothing is what they are really offering. After all one does not need a church to believe in a god or to follow a faith.

May 22, 2010 at 11:47 am
(5) Joe says:

(The “new” sexual ethic described here is one which is already well established in other industrialized nations, especially Europe.)

I agree with this 100%. I was station in Italy for five years from 95 to 2000 and it was single mans heaven. You didn’t have all the sexual frastration you find here in the states. If a woman wanted to have relations she did. you didn’t need to try and run game, it was total freedom to express your desires no one judged or put labels on you. I was completely surprised since it was religious country. its all about control and we have lot of that in US

January 8, 2012 at 12:16 pm
(6) mbbsdost says:

I am a medical student and have seen the tendency of people easily going for abortions instead of lot many other options available to them

The reason responsible for such an attitude seems to be less amount of knowledge about birth control methods like different variety of pills, vasectomy, and many more other ones.
A couple can easily choose from what he/she thinks will be properly followed and eaily taken up in daily routine and lifestyle.

i have uploaded a video about various methods of birth control on http://mbbsdost.com/fbapp/index.php?mno=316

As said above the age at which youngsters start up there sexual like is also important factor. We all understand that younger age groups feel shy to discuss about such matters and hence there limit to birth control measures is also limited

people here in my country(india) believe that the movies and adoption of western culture is responsible but i believe that instead of blaming others we should try to educate our young generation without hesitation

At the end i think that its the wrong of us that we are not putting up right concepts in our next generation. we should sit with them and talk out the facts with any hesitation

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