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Atheists and Marriage: Questions, Problems, Conflicts

Marriage is a very important and intimate relationship - but can marriages between atheists and theists work? What problems face atheists when married to religious spouses? How about when your in-laws are devoutly religious as well? What happens when your spouse grows more religious over time, or you more atheistic?
Mixed Marriages with Atheists & Theists: Are they doomed or can they work?
Can mixed marriages between atheists and theists work or are such people so different that their marriage would be doomed to failure? Marriage is one of the most intimate and serious relationships a person can have in their lives; it is thus understandable that people wonder if the gap between atheism and theism will create further differences which prevent individuals from making a marriage work.
Are Atheists More Compatible Than an Atheist & Theist?
Even if an atheists and a theist can make their marriage work, isnt' it true that two atheists would be more compatible than an atheist and a theist, thus making their marriage much more fulfilling? It is certainly reasonable to wonder whether an atheist and a theist would be as compatible as two people of the same position.
Do You Tell Religious In-Laws You're An Atheist?
So, you've decided that you cannot rationally or reasonably continue with the religion which you used to follow and can't even continue to call yourself a theist anymore. Your in-laws, however, are believers - perhaps even devout believers - and you don't know how they will react to your atheism.
In-Laws Opposed To Atheism: How Do You Handle Them?
Unfortunately, not every family is very accepting of people rejecting their religion. Rejecting belief in a god altogether can be even more problematic. Sometimes, they will even denigrate those who reject their religion and their beliefs, and you will find yourself in a very uncomfortable position.
I Was A Believer When I Got Married, But Now I'm Not So Sure
It's not unusual for people to start to have doubts about their religion and some even abandon their religion entirely. Part of that growth must entail reconsidering past beliefs and calling into question past assumptions. What happens when you no longer share a religion with your spouse who continues to be devout?
My Spouse Has Gotten More Religious Since We Got Married
It is not unusual for a person to become more devout in their religious beliefs over time - but what if their spouse isn't very devout or isn't religious at all? Can a marriage survive such a growing difference in religious perspectives and beliefs? If a person's partner is not religious at all or is merely superficially religious, problems can readily appear in the marriage.
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